She’s out to prove that there’s no such thing as choosing happiness.
Isadora Bentley follows the rules. Isadora Bentley likes things just so. Isadora Bentley believes that happiness is something that flat-out doesn’t exist in her life—and never will.
As a university researcher, Isadora keeps to herself as much as possible. She avoids the students she’s supposed to befriend and mentor. She stays away from her neighbors and lives her own quiet, organized life in her own quiet, organized apartment. And she will never get involved in a romantic relationship again—especially with another academic. It will be just Isadora and her research. Forever.
But on her thirtieth birthday, Isadora does something completely out of character. The young woman who never does anything “on a whim” makes an impulse purchase of a magazine featuring a silly article detailing “Thirty-One Ways to Be Happy”—which includes everything from smiling at strangers to exercising for endorphins to giving in to your chocolate cravings. Isadora decides to create her own secret research project—proving the writer of the ridiculous piece wrong.
As Isadora gets deeper into her research—and meets a handsome professor along the way—she’s stunned to discover that maybe, just maybe, she’s proving herself wrong. Perhaps there’s actually something to this happiness concept, and possibly there’s something to be said for loosening up and letting life take you somewhere . . . happy.
Contemporary Christian romance Perfect for fans of Denise Hunter and Rachel Linden Includes discussion questions for book clubs
Courtney Walsh is a novelist, theatre director, and playwright. She writes small town romance and women's fiction while juggling the performing arts studio and youth theatre she owns and runs with her husband. Her debut, A Sweethaven Summer, hit the New York Times and USA Today e-book bestseller lists. Her novel, Just Let Go, won the Carol Award in 2019 and Just One Kiss was a 2020 Christy Award Finalist.
A creative at heart, Courtney has also written two craft books and several full-length musicals. She lives in Illinois with her husband and three children and a sometimes naughty Bernedoodle named Luna.
When Isadora Bentley was ten, she prayed for a friend. Now that she is 30 she has given up. People just don't get her and her past is littered with hurts and disappointment. While shopping for birthday treats she notices an article listing 31 steps to happiness. She sets out to try the steps herself and prove the author wrong. #1 is Smile more. #3 is Exercise regularly. One of my favorites advises eating chocolate (in moderation). As Isadora tries each new step more people come alongside to try them with her. I loved the varied supporting characters like 70-year-old Marty and 10-year-old Delilah. As Isadora works through the list themes like friendship and forgiveness are explored. A feel good book that just might help you be happier too.
Isadora Bentley had been hurt so much in the past- by her parents, her peers growing up, her coworkers, and ex-lovers. How could she ever possibly trust anyone ever again? Wouldn’t life be easier to just be by yourself? Sound familiar? Well it sure did to me, and that’s why I resonated so much with Isadora Bentley. I loved her, and her story. In fact, I loved this book! I laughed (Chapter 3 had me laughing so hard, I was in tears), I cried, I got angry, and I even found happiness…
This story starts off with Isadora celebrating her 30th birthday alone. She is at the supermarket checkout lane, when she purchases a magazine that has an article in it on 31 ways to be happy. Isadora decides that she is going to try each of the 31 ways listed to see if the woman who wrote the article is right. Isadora even runs her own scientific data on this. (I need to mention Chapter 3 again, which was Rule #1- Smiling. I honestly never laughed so hard in my life 😂).
During this process of “becoming happy”, Isadora is instructed to work with Dr. Cal Baxter. How could that be?! Doesn’t her boss (with the creepy mustache) know that she likes to work alone? Also, during her lunch breaks at the university she meets an older gentleman named Marty, who she becomes friends with. Then her neighbor Darcy and her children from across the hall start coming over. This was not supposed to happen, but because it has- just maybe the 31 ways to be happy can be completed after all.
All I can say is that this book took me by total surprise and I loved every single page of it! I loved Isadora, and I was sad when I turned the last page. I think there are those of us who will resonate with this story more than others due to past experiences, but either way I feel this is a must read! I highly recommend this book, especially for those who are looking for a lighter read right now and something that is more uplifting.
I have mixed feelings about this book. I don’t dislike the idea but the execution could have been better.
Since reading an article about 31 ways to be happy, Isadora’s goal is to prove the author of the article wrong. It’s because she doesn’t believe anything could make her happy.
As you can probably imagine, it’s a story about Isadora’s journey to happiness, because, shocker, 31 ways work!
This is a self-help book in disguise but it’s pretty obvious from the premise so I was not surprised. The self help part was fine, I’m sure some people will find great life hacks here; I agree, smiling more and letting go of grudges will definitely make you feel better.
Isadora was a relatable character and her struggles were very real. Unfortunately the side characters were one dimensional and I couldn’t connect with any of them. Especially the love interest Cal had no personality which made the romance part not very exciting. Unless secondhand embarrassment is your thing because there was plenty of that… She just wouldn’t stop talking 😩
Another part that I didn’t like was how easily Isadora’s issues were solved. Such problems don’t magically disappear from smiling more and doing yoga. Even if your friends are unrealistically supportive and understanding.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
This is such a delightfully fun book that touches on all the emotions with laugh out loud moments as well as seriously sad ones. Isadora is a smart and unique nerd who has decided that being alone is better than getting hurt, something that she has endured since kindergarten. She enjoys her job as an academic researcher but has minimal interaction with her co-workers. When she sees an article in a tabloid about 31 ways to happiness, she sets out to prove the author wrong. Her research leads her through steps where she had to interact with people on a personal level and her social awkwardness is hilarious with her straightforward ways of interactions with others. This is a sweet story to read and watch as Isadora makes friends and opens herself up to possibilities, maybe even romance. I highly recommend this story. I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
I don’t believe I’ve ever read a book like this before. Highly recommend the audio version. It’s a journey of self discovery. She found a list of 31 things to do to become happy. She set out to disprove this. She meets amazing people, has amazing adventures and grows so much as a person. Highly recommend.
There are some books you read and you really love a certain character. Well, that wasn’t the case with this book. I loved all the characters! What a beautiful story!!
“Can happiness exist in the midst of profound sadness? Can two emotions share the same space?”
“You don't forgive people for their benefit. You do it for yours.”
"It was about me realizing that I have the power to change my own life."
This book is like therapy for all us socially anxious creatures!
An awkward university researcher who prefers to work alone, Isadora is on a mission to prove a magazine article, "Thirty-One Ways to Be Happy", wrong. Hurt by many in her life, Isadora simply doesn't believe finding happiness can be that simple. It never has been for her.
But little does she know, stepping outside her comfort zone will bring more than she could imagine!
I adored the focus on friendship, particularly the insecurities of making friends in adulthood. But like Isadora, it's never too late to find your people. I loved seeing Isadora find her safe space with those who truly appreciate her quirks. You never have to change yourself to please others.
From tween to elderly, Delilah, Darby, Cal, and Marty are quite frankly the strangest combination of characters—but also the most extraordinary, lovable bunch, each bringing their own light and wisdom into Isadora's life. And in the case of Dr. Cal Baxter, a little romance too!
A feel-good, relatable story that truly makes you reflect on your own happiness in the process! I adored it. I highly recommend on audio, too! Jorjeana Marie is a new-to-me narrator, but she was amazing.
This is one of those reviews where my thoughts are swirling every which direction, and I’m going to try to rein them in but probably won’t succeed. Just fair warning that this will likely be a review where I babble on incoherently about how much I loved this story and you’ll be like, “Ok. We get it. Wrap it up” and I’ll be like, “But I still haven’t talked about this or this or this.” So… yeah. This is where we’re at. Lol.
Isadora is a delightfully neurotic and socially awkward protagonist who has Sir David Attenborough narrating her internal monologue and is smart about everything except relationships. Like… with anyone. Not just romantically. In fact, she’s never really had any friends, her parents give her zero emotional support (actually it’s more like negative zillion than zero), and her only significant romantic relationship to date ended in a dumpster fire of humiliation and heartbreak. Because of these things, she isolates herself even from her colleagues and pours her energy and time solely into her work as a research scientist. She’s endearingly irritating but you can’t help loving her, like with a Sheldon Cooper or Temperance Brennan type of character. I adored her. I laughed over her, I grinned big over her and yep I even cried over her. I would almost say that she single-handedly took me on a roller coaster ride through every last one of my emotions… except it wasn’t single-handedly. And that, dear readers, is the beauty of The Happy Life of Isadora Bentley.
When Isadora sets out to disprove the “Thirty-One Ways to Be Happy” article, she never would have predicted that her solitary existence would soon be overrun with people. And honestly, neither did I as a reader. This book took me by surprise in the very best ways. It’s a romance, yes, and whew I’m still swooning over that part of it. But it’s so. much. more. The supporting characters in Isadora’s story make this one of my hands-down favorite reads of the year and my absolute favorite of Courtney Walsh’s books (and I’ve loved all of hers that I’ve read). Martin twisted my heart every time he was on the page, not out of sadness – I promise this is a very uplifting read lol – but because I just adored him so much. I fell head over heels for him, and no he’s not the romantic lead. Darby filled my heart with laughter, her ‘i will barge into your life and force you to be a friendly human’ attitude exactly what Isadora needed even though I would have honestly been tempted to run from her at first. I gave mental standing ovations to the role she played in Isadora’s life and for her refusal to let Isadora quit on her new relationships. Delilah – oh be still my heart. I loved that little girl & related to her so much. And then there’s Cal… but on second thought I’m going to let you discover him for yourself.
Bottom Line: The Happy Life of Isadora Bentley by Courtney Walsh is a truly enjoyable and heart-tugging read from start to finish. There’s laughter and love and friendship … even chocolate and homemade cookies. There’s also an exploration of loss, regrets, and isolation, and after the pandemic I feel like this story is a timely reminder that happiness can rarely be achieved in seclusion. To be honest, as an introvert, I allowed the shutdowns to give me the perfect excuse to hibernate (my default setting) and over the last couple of years I’ve struggled to force myself to get back out and do things with friends and family. Isadora’s journey gave me a lot to think about for my own life, too, and I can’t properly express how much I loved this story Walsh has told.
(I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book)
Courtney Walsh has previously been one of my favorite authors I had pretty much read all of her books 4-5 years ago. All of them were "happy" books that worked through tough situations/love stories, but what made me remember them most was the Christian message of hope that was laced throughout. So when I got approved for Isadora I was so excited because I had not read a good "wholesome" book in a while. As I flipped through the page I had this anticipation that at the end Walsh was going to hit me with the hope and promises of God and the joy He gives us. Our contentment and peace in this world is nothing here on earth but it is in Him and Him alone. Instead Walsh took this book as more of a women's empowerment(??) book. Isadora concluded that her hapiness and joy in life was the choice she gets to make. Isadora was self doubting the book, she did have some funny lines at times and I appreciated her love of sweatpants and books. Overall I did not warm up to her. I loved loved loved Darby her neighboor and sweet Delilah So as much as I love COurtney Walsh, this was a dissapointment for me. Many thanks to Netgally and Tom Nelson Publishing and of course the wonderful Courtney Walsh for allowing me to advanced read this book. I was not influenced in any way for this honest review.
At thirty, Isadora’s life is bland and far from happy. So when she spies a magazine article proclaiming “31 Ways to Be Happy (Today!)”, as an academic researcher she feels she can debunk this ridiculousness. However, as she starts trying out the suggestions in the name of science, it forces her to open up to others and she finds her life changing. Isadora was hurt badly in the past which ultimately led to her being guarded, her life stagnant, so I was thrilled seeing her start to embrace life and happiness, making friends, and finding love along the way! Isadora’s journey was of self-discovery and healing. This was such an uplifting story with a sweet romance as icing on the cake!
The audio was excellent! Jorjeana Marie's performance breathed life into the characters and definitely enhanced my enjoyment of the story! I listened at my usual 1.5x normal speed.
An audio copy was kindly provided by Thomas Nelson via Libro.fm in exchange for an honest review.
I have been SO CONFLICTED on how to rate this book. Because I really, really, REALLY enjoyed reading this. Like, I LOVED the journey of this book. SO MUCH. It is from such a unique point of view and just...the relationships! The premise! The drama! It was SO GOOD!!!!
But. I didn't care for the ending *sobs*.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
”Happiness isn’t something that happens to us, it’s something we seek & pursue.”
Courtney is one of my favorite feel-good authors and I was so happy to hear she was writing a more contemporary take on a romance! This was such a heart warming story full of nuggets of truth that really make you think. An example of this was how Isadora created friendships and was able to bond with people of all age groups. I think it’s so important to have friends in your life from all ages and stages of life to seek advice and encouragement from. I loved the friendship dynamic and fell even more in love with the side characters than I did Isadora herself!
While Isadora was such a relatable character on so many levels, what I didn’t love was the constant self-deprecating talk and mindset she had. There also didn’t seem like enough time to develop the romance and their relationship with the rest of the themes and events that took place within the book, so unfortunately I had a tough time really getting invested.
Overall, this was such a sweet, thought provoking story and I hope Courtney writes more stories like this in the future!
Thank you to the publisher for this advanced review copy!
Audiobook (narrated by Jorjeana Marie) This book made me happy. I finished the end of the story while on the treadmill, and I realized that I wore a silly grin through at least the last ten minutes of the book and my walk. I loved Isadora's journey, watching her collect a new family and be able to fall in love. My one disappointment was the absence of any faith or belief in God entering the story and being part of the healing of Isadora's emotional wounds.
Robin’s Ratings 5🌟 = Out of this world. Amazing. Unforgettable. A personal favorite. 4🌟 = Loved/enjoyed it. Will recommend to others. May read again. 3🌟 = Liked it. Glad I read it. Engaging/entertaining/interesting. 2🌟 = The book was okay, but I’ve enjoyed other books so much more. 1🌟 = For whatever reason, I didn’t like it and can’t recommend it.
I had high hopes for this book as I have enjoyed quite a few of Ms. Walsh’s books in the past. Isadora Bentley is a researcher at a university and she's an introvert who would rather work alone, stay in her comfort zone and is not great around people. She comes across this article entitled ‘31 ways to be Happy’ and on a whim she picks it up and decides to work on proving it wrong by performing each of the 31 steps. The first step is smile to a stranger, through that one little action she meets a stranger, and they end up becoming friends. She then meets somebody else, and her friendship circle continues to grow. When she starts this project, she is not very happy and pretty much alone, we watch her find friends and grow. I did enjoy seeing how other people impacted her life and pushed her out of her comfort zone. She ends up doing a lot of things she would have never done if she hadn't tried this project. The more I think about it I liked the side characters more than I did Isadora and I went into this thinking I would relate to closely to Isadora. What I did not like about this book is that Ms. Walsh has written strong faith stories in the past and it is promoted as Christian fiction but there is pretty much no faith in this story. It ends with Isadora saying happiness is a choice and I need to choose to be happy. This felt like a new age, self-help kind of book to me because she was really relying on herself. Someone tells her he wants to make her happy and she responds you can't make me happy I need to make myself happy. Due to the subject matter, there was a huge opportunity here to include the One who is the true source of happiness. I am disappointed with the way this book went. (I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.) This review first appeared at: C Jane Read.
At first it seemed like it might be good due to the humor, but then the laughs were replaced with soap, mush and predictability. Not worth reviewing as a result.
This book was pure joy :) I found myself purposely taking my time because I wanted to savor the journey to happiness with Isadora. The characters were like giant hugs and every chapter I couldn't help but smile. The romance was sweet. Who couldn't love Cal? For that matter, who couldn't love all of them? Marty, Darby and her children... such an amazing cast that I'm still not ready to let go (even after reallllly taking my time.)
As a closed door- clean women’s fiction/romance this is a wonderful book. Lovable characters, laugh out loud moments, and just wholesome fun.
But as a Christian fiction book (publisher is Thomas Nelson) it is really disappointing because there is such a missed opportunity to share the true meaning of happiness in the Christian faith. I was also really disappointed in some of the focuses of this book- there were more new age principles than Christian.
I understand authors and publishers trying to appeal to more audiences but if I read something published by a Christian publishing house I expected more. If this had been published anywhere else I wouldn’t care as much, but it is almost like Christian fiction doesn’t exist anymore and instead Christian publishing houses are just the places that have more ”clean” stories than non-Christian publishing groups. I know this author is moving more toward being marketed as a closed door author than Christian author so she can appeal to more people and has been publishing a lot more in the kindle unlimited space, but it’s sad to see the missed opportunity here to share about God in a fiction book especially on the topic of finding ultimate happiness and themes of receiving grace from others and the power of forgiveness.
Will I still recommend this book as a wholesome book- yes, but I’m sad it missed the mark for Christian fiction.
This is likely going to make my best of the year list. And I mean, the cover is just 🤩
On her 30th birthday, Isadora is checking out at the grocery store with a cart full of candy she plans to binge alone when a magazine headline catches her eye: “31 Ways to Be Happy (Today!)” With a researcher’s careful methodology, she sets out to disprove the entire list. What happens next is funny, sweet, and heartwarming in the best way. I truly loved everything about this. With a quirky main character reminiscent of Elinor Oliphant and a cast of supporting characters who would be friends with A Man Called Ove’s neighbors, this story will leave you with the biggest smile on your face and a renewed hope in humanity and community (at least that’s what it did for me). ❤️
“It’s as if she’s got a handle on who I am and she’s fine with it. Maybe [she] is the kind of person who simply allows people to be who they are. I might as well be having coffee with a unicorn.”
“Maybe happiness isn’t about what you do, Isadora. Maybe it’s about who you do it with.”
Many many thanks to Thomas Nelson and Netgalley for the advanced digital review copy. This was such a delight. The Happy Life of Isadora Bentley by Courtney Walsh releases on June 13.
I loved this book. It was sweet, funny and downright inspiring. I really enjoyed watching Isadora grow throughout her journey. But I think the cast of characters was what I enjoyed the most, and will miss the most after reading this wonderful book. Definitely recommend and will be looking for more by this author.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own. Thanks so much to NetGalley and Thomas Nelson Fiction for the ARC.
Courtney Walsh hit this one way out of the park!! I fell in love with Isadora from the very first few pages and I was rooting for her to find her happiness throughout this entire book.
Perfect for fans of character-driven novels like The brilliant life of Eudora Honeysett or Eleanor Oliphant is completely fine. Isadora is a woman happy to focus on her academic research and ignore the people around her having been burned badly by love.
Fortunately for her, after reading an article espousing 30 ways to find happiness on the eve of her 30th birthday, Isadora is challenged to step outside her comfort zone and take chances, make new friends and maybe, just maybe, find someone who loves her for who she is, quirks and all.
Swoony, heartfelt and absolutely unputdownable. This is going to be one of my favorite books of the year and by far the best book by Courtney Walsh I've read to date. Many thanks to NetGalley, the publisher and Librofm for the early digital and audio copies in exchange for my honest reviews!
This was the second most wholesome, uplifting book I have read all year and somehow I read it RIGHT after I read the first one. This book had it all- self-discovery, coming out of one's shell, romance, growing up, realizing your worth. I genuinely enjoyed this book and found myself almost crying at a few parts.
Isadora Bentley is a researcher that has been HURT by almost everyone she has let into her life. Her ex boyfriend/research partner used her and then left her. She has never been supported by her family. She has always felt like an outsider. Until one day, she picks up a magazine with an article claiming to bring you happiness with these 31 steps. She scoffs at the article and decides to embark on the journey of the steps ONLY to prove the article wrong. Not because she isn't happy or anything. At the same time, her boss assigns her a new project that involves a very handsome psychologist named Dr. Cal Baxter.
As Isadora pushes herself to complete step after step from the article she finds herself with not one new friend, not two new friends, but three new friends including a boyfriend and a found family. She still finds herself wanting to hide and not be hurt by the people that are around her, but they help her see what she is worth and that sometimes you have to jump to fall.
I thoroughly enjoyed this book and would highly recommend it! It was a very light summer read that couldn't not make you smile if you tried. I found myself laughing out loud at her inner voice that was David Attenboroughesk. Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!
RIGHT BOOK, RIGHT TIME. i'm always skeptical about bucket list books but this one outdid itself.
Adorable, quirky and heartwarming, The Happy Life of Isadora Bentley is about embracing the unknown, knowing your worth and finding love in all its forms along the way.
If I could describe this book, it would be the love child of Catherine Center with Eleanor Oliphant. Our main character keeps herself isolated from others because feeling nothing has got to be better than feeling the crushing blow of rejection and loss right?
What ensues is a journey for Isadora to find herself. Along the way she finds unexpected friendships, an incredibly handsome and just plain GOOD male lead (I loved him), and that the things that make us uncomfortable can bring us the most long lasting joy. This has a really lovely elderly best friend trope and its done very well.
This is a feel good book, its got women in STEM, sweet romance secondary to Isadoras growth journey but all of it is in perfect amounts to really tell a great story. I think this now one of my favorite books from Courtney. Even though Isadora and I have opposite personalities I think the friendships where we embrace was makes us different can be the most impactful.
All around just a freaking lovely book and perfect for summer. If you like heart warming books with great messages and content. Audio was very well done and the narration was perfectly fitting for this story.
Precious! I loved quirky Isadora Bentley. She's a researcher that's great with data, but prefers to work alone. Her solo preference extends to her personal life as well. As readers get to know Isadora, we learn the reasons behind her choices. Getting inside Isadora’s mental thoughts and social mishaps was such fun. So many witty passages in the pages.
As Isadora seeks to disprove a tabloid article about the 31 ways to be happy and her world expands, so does my delight in this novel. Marty, Darby and Delilah were all spectacular. Ten year old Delilah stole my heart with her combination of innocence and candor.
THE HAPPY LIFE OF ISADORA BENTLEY is an enchanting and heartwarming tale that skillfully addresses self-discovery, friendship, and the pursuit of happiness. Courtney Walsh's storytelling captivates readers through Isadora's lovable, quirky character and her transformative journey beginning with her 30th birthday.
This book masterfully blends humor with profound themes of self-acceptance, isolation's impact, and the power of genuine connections. A delightful reminder to embrace our unique qualities, the novel leaves a lasting impression and resonates deeply with readers. Highly recommended for those seeking an enjoyable read with meaningful insights on personal growth, the human experience, and forgiveness. I loved it!
This book was exactly what this introverted, awkward, and quirky girl needed. I related a lot to Isadora. I may not be as negative as she is but I can be critical and hard on myself. I loved Marty and Delilah. They were probably my favorite characters in this book. They were so down-to-earth, funny, and caring beyond belief. I also just appreciate how Cal never expected anything from Isadora and was dead set on making sure that she knew all he wanted was for her to be herself. This book was the perfect serotonin boost that I need to kick off summer!
After reading the blurb, I thought “This book sounds like me!” I was hooked on the story from the very first page & ended up reading the entire thing in one sitting because I was so invested!
Isadora is quirky, socially awkward, a hardcore introvert, and oh so relatable! Perhaps not in all her mannerisms & behaviours, but definitely in her mental dialogue, core fears, and her journey. Plus, her romance with Cal is absolutely adorable!
Cal is simply wonderful! He’s the opposite of Isadora & compliments her perfectly. He gently encourages her to get out of her comfort zone & defends her. I love how he interacts with his family & how his family welcomes Isadora.
And then there is the found family angle! This made me so happy as it’s one of my favourite tropes, and I love how it played out! Precious Marty—his interactions with Isadora & his sweet memories of his wife are beautiful. Bubbly Darby—she is definitely the sunshine to Isadora’s rain cloud & their unexpected friendship is so fun. And dear Delilah—this girl is truly a 70-year-old woman in a 10-year-old’s body & the bond between her & Isadora absolutely melted my heart.
In addition to the fantastic characters, this book’s themes surprised me in the best of ways & reduced me to tears more than once. Because in so much of Isadora’s (& Delilah’s) story, I saw mine. Isadora has to discover that she actually doesn’t hate people but instead she just hasn’t met the right people who accept & love her for who she is without trying to force her to be who/what they think she should be. And that just because she’s different doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with her. And how she views the past & those who have hurt her affects her present and her future.
I can’t explain how timely this book’s appearance in my life is, which is why it effected me so much. Do I expect others to cry over it? Probably not. But it was a gut punch for me, highlighting things I’m wrestling with & learning in my own life.
This book completely captured my heart & is definitely one of my top reads of the year!! 😭💛
Content: kissing; mentions of cheating (not the main characters)
*Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the complimentary copy of this book. I was not required to write a positive review. These are my honest thoughts and opinions.